HI, I'M DAN :-)
I'M NATURALLY SHY 

If you're shy I know how you feel. 

I grew up as one of those "naturally shy" kids. Every year during those parent-teacher meetings I would hear the same thing: "Daniel needs to speak up." 

I was actually fine with it until 9 years ago...
LET'S REWIND TO 2007

So I graduated college and got my first job (yay!)  

That's when all of my social skills, or lack thereof, became quite apparent. I had to talk to new people every day... 

And I was TERRIBLE at it! Guess what my boss told me? 

"...Daniel needs to speak up."  

It was like 6th grade all over again. After years of hiding, I was fed up. I realized I need to figure this out. 

Here's why: This was hurting my success in a huge way. 

I STARTED STUDYING SOCIAL SKILLS 

Like the good INFJ that I am, I started researching.  I committed myself to learning it. I read books and observed "naturals" like my boss. 

Like any other skill, I practiced and improved. 

After 9 years of hard work, I am proud to say I can start talking with anyone without feeling nervous or intimidated, and have a pleasant, easy-going conversation, and actually enjoy it :-) 

I've been able to meet tons of new friends and even improve my performance at work.

I WANT TO HELP YOU

The reason I started this site is because I want to help you. 

If you ever...
  • Feel nervous/awkward/self-conscious around new people
  • Run out of things to say and are afraid of boring others
  • Feel misunderstood around others
  • Missed opportunities in life because of shyness
...I can help.

Listen, I'm just a regular guy. I'm not special. I'm not talented. I'm just obsessed with learning this stuff. 

I want to free you from fear and awkwardness. 

And this isn't your typical advice like "smile", "be confident" or "think positive." 

I cut out the fluff and gives you simple, practical lessons based on science and tested in the real-world.

Just click the happy red button below to get started.